Desire isn’t something to feel guilty about. It’s something to understand.

In this event, we’ll talk honestly about attraction and what it reveals about us. What keeps catching your attention? What do you tend to excuse when you really like someone? Are you wanting real connection, or are you hoping someone will make you feel seen, chosen, or validated? We’ll look at how loneliness, past experiences, and different seasons of life shape who we’re drawn to. You’ll also reflect on what you secretly hope a relationship will fix or change.

Then we’ll shift into discernment, starting with you. Discernment isn’t about being suspicious of people. It’s about being clear within yourself. We’ll talk about why confusion often happens when we want two different things at the same time, and why learning to pause is a strength, not fear. You’ll consider whether you’re truly ready for a relationship, just curious, or simply tired of being alone.

This is a space for clarity, not shame. The goal is to help you understand yourself better so you can choose from confidence, not confusion.